What Could Be Stranger?
Many may not know that to play with fruit during sex has happened long before most of us were born. There was even some evidence of this left behind when archaeological excavations were conducted. Most of these artifacts were placed into museums on display as fertility artifacts when in fact they were homemade dildos made of many materials and shapes including phallus and non-phallus. The materials range from wood, straw, and quartz to low grade metals and look quite interesting and the craftsmanship is shocking for the dated materials where few tools were available.
I Don’t Like That Toy
It was obvious even then that with all the different shapes and sizes that everyone likes what they like and no one toy will make everyone happy. If you have a toy that you and your partner have been using and you dread using it, tell them! Why have your sexual encounters become something dreadful because of something you can control? Get rid of it!
I Like This Toy
When your partner gets it right, let them know just the same as you should when you let them know they could have left that other sex toy on the shelf at the sex shop. Be honest as it could mean the difference between sex session disaster or success! When it’s good, let them know so they can maintain that train of thought. Some sex toys definitely look better in the box than they feel when you use them.
You might try other toys similar to the ones you like that you may build a stock of options for yourself and your partner. Be sure you each know what the other likes so everyone receives full pleasure.
